Women exist. Some have vaginas, some have penises. Men exist. Some have vaginas, some have penises. People can be gender-fluid and not identify exclusively as one or the other. People can be gender-queer and not identify as any gender. People can be none of the above, because not everyone fits into the boxes we create with categories and labels.
Gender isn’t a binary and that’s okay. If you don’t understand that, it’s fine, but don’t discount who someone else is because of it. If you live it, know that you are perfect as who you are. You don’t have to fit into pre-constructed norms to be a good person, or to be “real”. If you like categories and labels for yourself, that’s okay! You have every right to classify yourself how you wish. If you hate labels, don’t use them! It’s okay to be more than a word.
All that matters is that you are happy. ♥